Top 10 sexual arousals in the bedroom


A new study has revealed surprising sexual arousals. (Getty Images)

The nation’s favorite exciters have been revealed in a bid to help us rekindle our sexual spark.

Indeed, not enough of us are having sex, with only 27% of us having sex every week, according to a recent YouGov survey, robbing us of the benefits for our mood, sleep and general well-being. .

So, to get us more into the mood, MattressNextDay analyzed various activation-related Reddit threads (which have over 36 million members) to identify the top 10 unexpected guilty pleasures.

The list is based on those who received the most “upvotes”, which means the user is completely on board.

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1. Stretch and tie hair – 3,900 upvotes

Woman tying hair.  (Getty Images)

Stretching and tying hair is the most sexually arousing thing – okay or not? (Getty Images)

Yes, this one came in number one, especially when “watching” their partner or whoever they’re dating stretch before tying their hair up. Although it may be perceived as exceptional excitement, stretching apparently has great benefits for your sex life.

“First, it signals to your partner that you’re making yourself more flexible, which naturally suggests that you’ll be able to use more body positions if you have sex right after stretching,” says Martin Seeley, CEO of MattressNextDay.

And this not only benefits you, but also the person stretching.

“It also gives you more energy by increasing the flow of blood oxygen to your muscles, giving you more endurance,” he added. And of course, stretching and moving your body releases endorphins, which are also released during sex, “therefore giving you the feeling of ‘reward’.”

So in theory, even though tying up hair seems like the most appealing move, you can adapt this little trick to your liking.

2. A man who rolls up his sleeves while wearing a suit – 2,250 upvotes

Man wearing a suit rolling up his sleeves.  (Getty Images)

Many people’s favorite body part of a man is his forearm. (Getty Images)

The reason so many people agree that a man who rolls up his sleeves, especially in a suit, is so sexual is because it suggests he’s about to do “something big.” practice”.

“Many commenters have also agreed that their favorite body part on a man is their forearm, so showing them off naturally turns them on,” Seeley said, something some might relate to.

Similarly, 405 Reddit users think “a man backing up with his arm on the back of the passenger seat” is something that gets them in the mood. Interesting.

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3-4. Your partner doing chores around the house – 2,200 upvotes

Man doing laundry while woman watches.  (Getty Images)

It seems like a laundry place is more than enough to keep people going. (Getty Images)

Making yourself useful will not only keep your partner from hating you, but also improve your sex life, a win-win. Chores like doing the dishes and “any physical work around the house” will do, apparently.

And while it’s not so much about chores as the necessities of life, “taking the kids to school” and “cooking” are also many people’s guilty pleasures. Clearly not enough other important people are already doing it…

3-4. Watching someone do something they’re passionate about – 2,200 upvotes

Woman doing home workout.  (Getty Images)

Your passion will be contagious. (Getty Images)

He came in tied for third place. Whether it’s playing a sport, attending a WFH meeting, or even… juggling (if that’s your thing)… being passionate about the things in life will make you more attractive. and will also help you increase your passion in the bedroom.

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5. Look at your partner – 2,000 upvotes

Women who look each other in the eye.  (Getty Images)

The longer you look someone in the eye, the more connected you feel… (Getty Images)

Admiring its beauty or flaws (but don’t just look at it for fun!) is a guaranteed way to make someone feel special. And make them sexually attracted to you too, it seems.

6. Your partner gets out of the shower – 1,400 upvotes

Man getting out of the shower.  (Getty Images)

Can you relate? (Getty Images)

While many of us might think we might look like wet dogs, have a towel wrapped around our hair, or still have leftover shaving cream on us, obviously you might look a little more sexy, thank you.

7. A strong woman – 921 upvotes

Woman lifting weights.  (Getty Images)

Strength is sexy. (Getty Images)

Not that this one should be “out of par” in any way, but it got 921 upvotes on the Reddit thread.

We like to think it might be physically strong and or mentally.

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8. A person with a low, slow voice – 616 upvotes

Homosexual couple.  (Getty Images)

Which of you has the most seductive voice? (Getty Images)

Does just listening to your significant other or the person you’re dating transform you? Do they have a low, slow voice? Or maybe you have one, in which case you’re in luck.

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9. Spontaneously order a pizza delivery – 522 upvotes

Eating pizza in bed as a couple.  (Getty Images)

There’s no such thing as pizza after sex… apparently. (Getty Images)

Although food can be an aphrodisiac, you wouldn’t normally expect ordering pizza to get someone in the mood. But it’s clearly the “spontaneity” associated with the deep (or thin) crust that keeps people going.

Although this received a humble 522 votes, “my partner cooks for me” only received 33 upvotes, ranking it down to number 38.

And the topic of food is most definitely a form of pillow talk, with MattressNextDay also revealing that 8,4000 people agree they ask their romantic partner if they should order pizza after having sex.

10. Being lightly touched on the back of the head or neck – 465 upvotes

Head scratching.  (Getty Images)

Does that excite you or excite you? Or just fall asleep? (Getty Images)

Chances are you’re either the one who appreciates a light tickle or the one who scratches your head or neck. While there’s usually one or the other who enjoys it more, if it’s both your thing, it’s good news for your sex life.

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